"Why can't you forget like the rest of us?"
"Michelle, none of what you say ever happened...Honey, stop spreading lies."
"You are mentally ill. That is the only reasonable explanation as to why all these decades you insist you were tortured and abused. We are a good upstanding family. We have prestigue, reputations and responsibility in this town. Every time you come [here/home] to visit, you under mind that just by being here -just by being YOU!"
"You have no proof that anything you say is true." -Family Member who closed down the office of my ob/gyn from the time I was eleven to about twenty-six years old and kept my records from being released.
WELL DO I HAVE NEWS!!!
I now have verification!
"BONES NEVER LIE" - Temperance "Bones" Brennan (by Kathy Reichs)
It is a common issue among many survivors of child torture or traumas and part of our continued abuse way into our adult years that our abusers will deny to our faces the crimes they inflicted upon us. That in itself becomes another form of mental and emotional abuse.
Well, after more than twenty years of trying to get my ob/gyn medical records that contained indications that would validate my child abuse, a recent trip to the chiropractor managed to reveal through X-ray the indications recorded upon my bones.
Well, after more than twenty years of trying to get my ob/gyn medical records that contained indications that would validate my child abuse, a recent trip to the chiropractor managed to reveal through X-ray the indications recorded upon my bones.
While this is quite the emotional relief, it is only the beginning of what is to come. It may not be comely of me to gloat as I am. Yet, I have to tell y'all it is like a life time of Christmases, birthdays and winning several multi-million dollars all rolled into one event.
I always said my health will not let me forget my childhood, which is true of just about every victim and survivor that I know no matter their age. And when requested to make my life into a movie, one of my excuses to hold up the process was for medical knowledge of the damage done to my body as a result of the abuses and tortures. I have the start of gathering this knowledge now. It has only been a week of having the results. I am still processing that I even have them. I haven't really studied them any more than when I was at the chiropractor's office. I will as I have the nerve. In the meantime, I am celebrating and basking in the validation.
I always said my health will not let me forget my childhood, which is true of just about every victim and survivor that I know no matter their age. And when requested to make my life into a movie, one of my excuses to hold up the process was for medical knowledge of the damage done to my body as a result of the abuses and tortures. I have the start of gathering this knowledge now. It has only been a week of having the results. I am still processing that I even have them. I haven't really studied them any more than when I was at the chiropractor's office. I will as I have the nerve. In the meantime, I am celebrating and basking in the validation.
Remember I am dealing with bone marrow issues and several terminal illnesses and a rare auto immune disease Mastocytosis which is also terminal and is indicative of cancer or is a type of cancer. Mastocystosis is usually treated as cancer. Because I have been through cancer treatment before and just do not want to go through that hell again, I am choosing the most natural yet practical methods that I can get away with. I see my health journey as another extension of my advocacy in that over the years what I have been learning about abuse and auto immune diseases and the treatments out there per condition, I do my best to make known.
Below is a link to go to in order to learn more about obtaining your medical records. If you have been abused or tortured or know of someone who has and is having trouble for one reason or another in obtaining their medical records, I highly recommend going to the chiropractor. If you or someone you may know has been abused or tortured and is suffering medically, I highly recommend that you see a chiropractor who also believes in holistic medical practices. For assistance in finding out more about obtaining your medical records or finding a chiropractor, please email onceuponaneden@gmail.com.
http://www.healthinfolaw.org/comparative-analysis/medical-record-retention-required-health-care-providers-50-state-comparison